Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Essay 17 Friends

This Thursday, I’m going to ask some friends to come over for dinner. Because we have few time to be together lately. Everybody is busy for final and have no much free time. I’m kind of person who would like to be with friends a lot. I’d like to listen to my friends’ situations as well as telling them mine. It’s really an enjoyable thing to share everything with friends both happiness and sadness. To me, friend is one of the most important parts of my life. I can’t imagine how I can survive without friends. My life would be dull if no any friend around me. Friend means a lot and everybody would have many experiences of making friends during the whole life. But there are two kinds of friend. One is who’d like to help you when you’re in trouble and the other one is who can only share happiness with you no more trouble.

The first kind of friend, who may give you a hand when you are in trouble, is what we need to value. I personally think that the deeper meaning of friend is a hand pulled you out of the darkness. Only such friends can be true friends. I’m lucky that I have many such friends. When I’m in trouble, they would try their best to help me without asking in return. I appreciate what they did for me. There was the most recent trouble I had in this summer. I lost my suitcase in the airport after returned from Europe and all my daily things were in it like wallet, cell phone, changing clothes and so on. As I was so helpless and muddleheaded that I didn’t know what I should do, one of my good friends helped me a lot. She analyzed where I could loss it and then she made many phone calls. During those days, she shared everything of hers with me. Sometimes I would feel ashamed to bother her but she was very gracious and told me just to help myself. I’m very grateful about her help and such friendship is very valuable.

Another kind of friend would keep away from you when you are asking for help. They would rather get quiet than help their friends. I might be afraid that they would get trouble too. I can’t say that they are bad or something. But I personally think that we don’t need to pay attention to such friend or care about them. Because once we pay too much we would get hurt by their indifference. I had such experience before which made me sad a lot. I treated her as my good friend and I was serious about our friendship. When she was in trouble I would be the first one who’d like to help her. She was used to being my example because her excellent grade. Once I asked her a question from the class but she said that she didn’t know either and I believed initially. But gradually I found that she always escaped from helping me on study. And ultimately I got the answer that she was afraid that I would beyond her some day. I was so sad at that time. I thought good friends should be close and help each other. But what she did was opposite.

It’s important to make friends but more important to tell good friend and those friend whom we need to keep away.

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